well, it's more like have him stay in bed...

when I stay the night, Jinge would stay in bed until I feel asleep then go to the couch and watch tv until he feel asleep on the couch…

after nearly a year of this, last week when I told him I was going to bed, he turned off all the lights and THE TV, TOO and went to bed and was still there when I woke up the next morning.

Fearing it was a fluke, the next week I told him I was going to bed, he said okay, and when he finished his show (about 15 minutes later) he turned off the lights and came to bed and was still there the next morning!

wow!

a bit of randomness for you care of 43 things